The next day I was helping someone out and they had a list of complaints a mile long about church and problems there. I couldn't help but notice a trend there.
I asked the Lord what his take was on all these legitimate complaints. You know what he said? He said, "Your leaders are works in progress just like you are. Don't expect perfection from them until you are perfect yourself."
Contrary to popular belief, God is working on them just like he is working on us..... but the area he's working on might not be the area that bugs you the most.
I too have had my share of trouble with persons in leadership, surprise, surprise. I wouldn't be human if it weren't so. The Lord has opened my eyes to see the bigger picture and to see the damage that can be done to a church by disappointment and offense.
The Problem is.... there are only so many churches to go to and if you leave offended at one you're enlisting in God's 'wilderness wandering game'. No thank you. Been there before and I want to move on to the next level.
I am not by any means saying that our church has it all together. On the contrary, I can see some gaping holes and areas that need improvement.
So I am going to share some wise words a couple of my mentors shared with me years ago.
The First is never leave a church with offense in your heart. Always ask God to heal you up first and try to leave on good standing, not the superficial, "Thanks, I'm called out. Good bye." This will help you grow in Christ. If you can't leave the way you want because of situations outside your control, then pursue healing in the new church you go to.
Second, when a leader starts claiming he/she's something great etc. and it rubs you the wrong way, pause and think about it. Is the person saying this to excuse a character flaw or are they attempting to, 'call those things that be not as though they were?" Usually if it rubs you the wrong way it's because you have had their flaws cause you personal pain. It's time to seek the Lord and find the balance in your life. God, family, work then church is the way most ministry leaders advise people to prioritize your lives.
I remember something a leader said when one of his helpers quit his job and stated he was going to go preach the gospel for a living. This person said to themselves, "Why this guy can't preach himself out of a garbage can! He'll be out of money in a month!" Holy Spirit quickly spoke up to this man, "Then help him!" That quieted this leader. So many other people were quick to tell the would be preacher that he would never make it and that he better go back to his regular job but this leader would not join in their criticism or judgement. Time marched on and the would be preacher did become successful, praise God!
Are you wondering who the leader was? Kenneth Copeland! And the would be preacher was Jerry Savelle! What a loss it would be to the body of Christ without Jerry Savelle's Ministry! He has helped countless people around the globe get a handle on the basics of faith--myself included!
So when I hear a leader claiming great titles I remember that story and I figure I can be on the helping side which is Holy Spirit, or I can be on the devil's side which is criticizing and judging. No thank you. I am Not going there. Yes, the attacks are real and yes sometimes leaders get puffed up. God's able to correct them without my help... I know that now.
I encourage you to give all your expectations of what leadership should and should not be over to the Lord daily. That's what I am learning to do. As I look at God in praise and worship it gets easier and easier to do this. Let's pray...
Lord we need your help to love people through the unlovely situations we face daily. Let your love and peace we shed abroad in our hearts. Give us your hope that you are able to change us and the situations around us. We ask for joy and humor in our daily journey with you. Bind us all together in your love and thank you for unity of spirit in our churches. Thank You for helping us look past our hurts to the beauty you are creating in the people around us and in us. Thank You Lord for time with you and for transforming our hearts so we want to spend more time with you every day. Amen!
Bless you!
Big hugs,
Brenda Gale Thompson
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